Matthew 5:31-32
                                                                                Father’s view of divorce
Father on the day he created woman did it to create for a help mate for man.  Father gave Eve so Adam could provide for her care and protection.  Father has created in woman a person who is to be a compliment for the man Father gives her to.   I am convinced when Father stood back and looked at what he had done making Adam he said, “This is good.” When he created Eve he said, “This is really good.”  The problem with some men today is they are not thinking she is REALLY good.  They are thinking she is not good enough.  If all through marriage men and women would have in the fore front of their mind, “this person is a gift and I need to treat them like the gift they are.”  We would see the divorce rate plummet.  But, instead we see each person seeking what is best for them.  There is no thought about the children, or the other person.  We are seeing “I am just not happy.” This is the mantra for the day.   Men are running away from their role.   The mans role is protector and provider.   When man ceases to do that the marriage starts to break down.  When man abandons his role the woman loses respect for him. When that happens the love from man stops flowing to the woman. When that happens we see Ephesians 5:33 breaking down.  Husbands are called to love their wives and wives respect their husbands.  Ephesians 5:22 it is even stronger. Husbands love your wives as Christ loves the church.  Christ will not ever send his church away.  This is a huge love that man is called to have for his wife.  It is a total sacrifice that man is to give for his wife.  Total giving is required. Not suggested, not recommended, but required.  The church is the bride of Christ.  This bride which we are a part of messes up and sins.  Yet Christ will not ever reject us.  We cannot ever reject our wives except for adultery.  That would be like us getting involved with witchcraft.
Then we are in essence rejecting the Christ.  Husbands are called to a high responsibility.
Walk in what Father has called you to
Go in peace.